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Strangers, again

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我們在浪費時間 你肯定覺得我很蠢 妳知道我不是這個意思,Marissa 你沒有說,可是你心裏是這樣想 我當然是這樣想,這本來就是件蠢事 你看 看什麼? 事實如此! 誰會在意我提早離開? 妳們跟本不熟,居然為她跟我發脾氣? 對! 因為你覺得我討厭 天啊,這跟我們之間無關 是妳同事的笨聚餐,妳以為妳有義務要去 因為她沒朋友 我們露面就可以了,不用真的待上4個小時 這正是我們的事 是你不明白什麼對我是重要 吃自製馬鈴薯沙拉和玩拼字遊戲對妳很重要? 太蠢了… 我剛不就是這麼說! 你,是蠢貨! 好,我不跟妳計較 能拜託妳告訴我,我們可否提早離開? Josh,你自己說 什麼? 對不起,我不應跟妳吵 妳做決定吧,我都聽妳的 Josh,這次不行 我不會再幫你做決定 因為你以後只會用這個來對付我 說什麼:「我每次都聽妳的」 不能再這樣 這次不是我的錯 沒必要弄成這樣 你說得對,真的沒必要 這不常發生 我不記得什麼時候變這樣,但… 我肯定我們以前不是這樣的 她曾經是… 我的獨角獸 你知道,真的不可置信 那麼特別的女孩,我還以為不會存在 但隨著時間變動,我們的感情經歷不同階段 我們那條曾經天真、愉悅的路 終於走到了這個地步 跟大多數人一樣,我們是從陌生人開始 在第1個階段:邂逅 真的要感謝那條鞋帶 不好意思… 妳的鞋帶鬆了 喔,謝謝 不客氣… 你還好… 這種邂逅可遇不可求 得感謝市政府5年來都沒修好小俓 我沒有告訴她,這是我9個月來第一次跑步 我們那天卻跑了5英里 男生真沒用,為了心儀的女生,什麼都做得出 但這都是值得的 因為我要到她的電話 我們一見如故 至少我是這麼認為,我昏迷了好幾分鐘 但醒來後還記得,我留下了不錯的印象 之後我們進入了第2個階段:追求 有人說這階段是最美好的 我只想更深的了解她 (Marissa: 下次跑步,我得帶上醫護員了=P) 只想每天和她在一起 好了嗎? 我只想跟她一個人說話 她比任何事都重要 不會吧,兄弟?! 每次見到她… 都讓我小鹿亂撞 她是我心目中完美的女孩 而當感覺對了 「你願意當我女朋友嗎?」 「好」 簡單一個字, 我們就開始了 帶我們進入第3階段:蜜月期 大家稱之為「蜜月期」,是有原因的 我們終於可以毫無保留地表達愛意 做一切情侶會做的事 美夢成真了 那個我渴慕擁有的女生 終於是我的了 但最終,熱情會轉淡,而我們也回歸正常 到了這階段,我們拍過無數張的合照 知道彼此生活上的細節 而像其他正常,健康的情侶 我們進入到第4階段:安逸 妳今晚想幹什麼? 不知道,隨便吧 安逸並不是件壞事情 我們可以真實地做回自己 就看你如何對待這安逸的狀態 有人能適當地運用,繼續為感情努力,互相成長 其他人則讓它製造距離 至於Marissa和我… 安逸讓相伴變得理所當然 妳幹嘛? 今天是週二,妳還沒換衣服? 對… 我完全不記得 可以不去嗎? 我不太想去… 這是妳的主意 我知道… 我只是有其他事在忙… 嗯…下週好嗎? 好吧… 你不接嗎? 過了這關再打給她好了 小心 不論是視彼此為理所當然 還是人隨著時間改變 感情的底線就是,其中一方放棄 而感覺也沒有以前強烈 這可以在幾個月,或幾年內發生 而我們,維持了一年半後進入第5階段:忍耐 當Marissa和我進到這個階段時,我沒法置信 也十分沮喪 不知怎地,這個我1年前很迷戀的女孩 已變得不怎麼特別 這感覺慢慢潛入,我沒來得及察覺 我們就走到了這階段,忍耐著對方 天啊,別問我今天過得怎樣 不打算問 我發誓我的同事試圖讓我辭職 今晚想去哪裏吃飯? 隨便妳 你可以做決定嗎? 我在問你 而我很隨和,你選吧 天啊,你是5歲小孩嗎? 總要人為你做決定 通常我不會跟她計較 但我今天心情也不好,所以… 妳剛剛說什麼? 吵架是一件事 但對這段戀情不滿、不愉快又是另一回事 我們試過無數次,去改變、修補關係 但跟許多的情侶一樣 這還是不夠 而我們的感情也變得不冷不熱 告訴你,這樣形容一段關係,絕對不是好事 我想我要睡了 好吧… - 晚安 - 晚安 沒多久,我們就進入了第6階段:下坡 一旦到了這階段,時間也所剩無幾 再怎麼用力修補關係 都是枉然 問題依然存在,沒完沒了的爭執… 我都不記得吵架的內容了 我無法跟你溝通,你… 為什麼妳不能… 我不敢相信… 你怎麼可以… 我們到底在吵什麼? Marissa和我,很不幸 已差不多走到這階段的盡頭 接下來,是每個人總會經歷的 終點線 這是最難受的階段:分手 我不知道何時會發生、如何發生 只希望大家可以和平地分手 如果可以的話… 「這樣對大家都好…」 「好吧…」 從那時起,我們將各走各路 我們的關係也將回到原點 兩個陌路人 這改變來得太突然,太直接 或許我們會想馬上復合 恢復昔日關係 喂…? 嘿,Marissa 我很想妳 你喝醉了嗎? 但這不常發生 而大家的距離會越走越遠 最終我們倆都會向前看 或找到新的對象 我的天…! Don… 過來… 他是誰? 她和誰在一起? 告訴我他是誰 很抱歉,兄弟 儘管我們已經忘記過去 努力成為朋友 一切都回不了當初 Josh? 真的是你 Marissa 嗨,見到你真好 我也是,妳還會來這邊跑步? 每次回家都會過來 回家? 對,我幾個月前搬到三藩市了 - 今天只是帶我男朋友來看看這公園 - 不錯... 他在這裏 Josh,他是Alex Alex,他是Josh 很高興認識你 我們要找時間聚一聚,再跟你約好嗎? - 當然 - 再見 我們會走不同的路,繼續邁進那避不了的終點… 重回陌路人 我們的一切,只會變成零碎的回憶 太久以前… 我甚至懷疑是否真的發生過 留下的只有這個 一個盒子,裝著從前的回憶和物品 而這個陌生人,曾是我生命最重要的人 真可惜 這是來提醒你 我們第一次見面時,你如何「拜」倒在我裙下 Josh,很高興我們生命中有彼此 我知道不論多困難,我們都會一起渡過 一起迎向明天 週年快樂 我的媽呀… 你在幹什麼? 不好意思… 我很抱歉Marissa 只是個聚餐,我不知道我在抗拒什麼 隨便吧… 不… 不能隨便,這對我們很重要 不是說聚餐,是… 這個 這對我們很重要 對我… 我們不要再那樣了 對不起,求求妳? 好吧… 真的? 妳沒事了? 對不起,我是大笨蛋 真的對不起,我們沒事了? 沒事了,寶貝 [5個月前] 在第4階段快結束的某天 你有發覺我們的將來,其實只有2種結果? 不是分手,就是結婚 從來沒想過 你覺得我們會結婚嗎? 天啊,這是個圈套 為什麼,妳想嫁給我嗎? 現在不確定 我也是 那你會想跟我分手嗎? 當然不想 就只會是其中一樣 如果我們最後分開了,我們會怎樣? 我們會討厭對方嗎? 會保持聯絡嗎? 我覺得如果命運要我們分開 最後天各一方 我會永遠記得,我們的生命曾經交疊在一起 而我會為此感恩 希望無論妳身在何處,也能為此感恩 我想我們能做的,就只有這樣了

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stage for good comfortable my friend Leone do tonight is the PlayBook on them where every state now being comfortable isn't necessarily bad it's when we could truly be ourselves but it depends on what you do with a comfort some use a positively continuing to work at their relationship in grow together bird others allow it to create distance and former Sen I made us take each other for granted release 20 much just oh yeah I totally forgot constable illegally this whole thing was your idea I I know I just gonna have other things to do I'm weeks I nothing ever a car back asleep what's up whether it's take each other for granted people changing over time bottom line is someone stops trying feelings on a strong as before this could happen over a few months or few years for us was about one and half years when we stage 5 tolerance one reason I got to the stage a complete industry to spoil somehow ago I was so crazy about a year ago turn into someone who dis wasn't that special anymore happened so gradually that I didn't see coming but everywhere just tolerating each other story and asked me about my day so my coworkers are trying to get me to quit where you want to eat tonight where you wanna go can you just decide I asked you and I being flexible you pick you get a five year also nice tell you what to do normally I'd let that go but I'm having a bad day too so what you just say arguing is one thing feeling dissatisfied unhappy with the relationship is another we tried various times to try make changes to fix things like so many couples out there it wasn't enough became one of those relationships where it wasn't bad but it was great let me tell you that's never good way to describe the relationship of streak wasn't long before we were in states 6 down-home there's not much time left once your the effort to try to make things work just isn't worth it anymore problems continue are you in stock assault I'm really remember we argue about I can't talk to you right now you why would you just exactly that well how do you with did we argue about reason I sad to say are nearing the end of the stage what's next is what happens to everyone at some point and if the line worst state ever breaking and I don't know when it'll happen or how but I hope we can leave it on good mutual terms if that's ever truly possible think it's for the best for this when the two of us will start a new pack when that leads right back to where we started strangers the change will be so drastic so blunt there will probably want to get back together right away just restore what's going on a versa an issue future but this doesn't always happen and the distance will grow and eventually the two of us will move on or find someone new oh my god saw of what top so who is that who she with something that is sorry man and even when we both get over the past and try to remain friends things when everything's shots here warmer serve hey girl you to you still run around here well when I visit home yeah visit yeah I moved at San Francisco couple months ago I'm just here to show my boyfriend the party cool now using F dice this is Alex alley just I all him as we speak well we should catch up sometime outside the lake to allies will continue on in different directions 29 to blend becoming strangers again and everything we sure will just become fragmented memories from so long ago a question if it even really happened and all that will be left is this box random stuff from a fatal period of time when the stranger was the most important person in my life machine this is to remind you how hard you felt very mean little you first met Josh I'm so glad we have each other in their lives you know that no matter what will always be get through it and will always have its marketing happy anniversary up what are you doing sorry sorry I I mean I mean I I'm sorry versa it's just this is the polygon analyzed a certificate its its whatever no no it's not whatever it's important to us 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